What is love..? (III)

well.. love seems to be the most favourite topic of everyone.. coz i got many responses from my friends.. so i think i could write something more about love..

there is one dear friend of mine.. whom i had partner with for like almost three years.. suddenly ask me "how many girlfriends do you have..?" i was like.. huh..? haha.. nevermind.. i've been waiting for him to tell me something about himself.. for i've always known him as a problematic person.. erm.. just joking..

we chatted for quite a long time.. and i realise that he is one of those.. placing career before love.. that kinda person.. ya.. he told me that he's crazy towards his future career and he thinks about it.. worry about it everyday.. it was like.. to him.. it is everything.. and for it is so.. he is afraid to think about love now.. coz he had actually like a girl for several times..

and after hearing what he had said to me.. i told him.. "career is not everything.. love is not everything.. but together.. they are everything.." isn't it true..? at least to me.. if i'm lacking one of any of these.. i'm not living the way i want it to be..

in love.. we are always facing the choice of wanting to wait for another or not.. of coz.. many would choose to wait.. but.. are you really waiting..? are you certain that he/she will come back to your side..?

we only wait for something that is sure to happen.. like waiting for your accompanies to go out and have fun.. we don't wait for something that is uncertain to happen.. coz that is not waiting.. that is expecting.. we only expect something that is uncertain to happen.. like maybe.. your prince charming or dream girl like to go to this whatever place.. so you go there.. and expect him or her to show up..

so now.. are you waiting for him/her to come back to your side..? or expecting him/her to come back to your side..? that is a real big question isn't it..