Changing for the better..?

for don't know what reason.. many people seems to talk to me today about changing themselves for the better.. the reasons are.. example.. to fit into the environment.. to make more friends.. to know and be aware of what's happening around him or her.. and all sort of.. my usual word.. bullshit..

to me.. i just wanna be myself.. why bother to change for the better.. just to please the others..? man.. that would do a great hurt to yourself psychologically.. human doesn't exist just to stress themselves.. just be a carefree person.. and the carefree i mentioned here is not that "carefree" mind you.. *oh i'm f~r~e~e~z~i~n~g* haha.. nah.. just joking..

so as i've said above.. i wouldn't change my character or personality just because of someone or whatever reason.. unless.. unless it's for myself.. and if i feel that i will like tha change i'm having.. some people change because they just wanted to fit into the environment.. and they ended up going nowhere.. that's the most pathetic thing..

well.. some words to give away.. here it goes.. "what is you will always be you.. what is me will always be me.. you cannot be me.. while i cannot be you.." these four sentences are simple and easy to understand.. but it's the meaning that make them look different.. think.. the meaning inside is unlimited.. if not what are our brains for.. am i right..? =)