Diamond on the sand..
long awaited post probably ey..? oh well.. been busy with stuffs.. and i really mean stuffs.. much things had happened from the last time i post.. ups and downs of others as well as myself.. i've learnt that stubborn people who do things stubbornly only end up hurting themselves..
there's a difference of listening to others and being shaken by the others.. you can have your own stands and i definitely agree and support having own stands.. but that doesn't mean you reject all of others comment on you and things you do.. and say that i don't wanna be easily shaken by what other people said.. you've gotta have the abilities to filter the comments and take in the good ones.. plain stubborness of being yourself and only yourself is stupid and dumb.. how could you ever improve yourself like this?
as what i always believed.. there's no good or bad person.. only acceptable and unacceptable person.. take for example a thief.. being a thief is bad as we all know.. but think.. what if the act of stealing is being accepted by humans.. a thief will then be deemed as a good person.. right?
so in order to improve yourself.. most of the things that you do must be acceptable.. coz the word acceptable is given by the others.. not yourself.. and it goes back to what i've said before.. we are living together with the others.. so we cannot only think of ourself and not to consider what others feel.. everyone needs to be accepted.. and everyone has the right to have a chance to be accepted.. coz that's how this world works as we always depends on others to live.. imagine if you have a master in everything but no one is gonna hire you.. coz your behaviour is just unacceptable.. how are you gonna survive?
no one can live alone.. you may say that living on top of the mountain and go hunting everyday is considered as living alone.. but that's wrong.. what do you depend on to live? you need trees to build houses and to set up fire.. you need foods provided by the animals living on the mountain.. isn't that depending on others?
change is needed when there's a need to change.. change comes naturally most of the time.. but firstly.. you have to tell yourself to open up for change.. only then can change comes naturally..
there's a difference of listening to others and being shaken by the others.. you can have your own stands and i definitely agree and support having own stands.. but that doesn't mean you reject all of others comment on you and things you do.. and say that i don't wanna be easily shaken by what other people said.. you've gotta have the abilities to filter the comments and take in the good ones.. plain stubborness of being yourself and only yourself is stupid and dumb.. how could you ever improve yourself like this?
as what i always believed.. there's no good or bad person.. only acceptable and unacceptable person.. take for example a thief.. being a thief is bad as we all know.. but think.. what if the act of stealing is being accepted by humans.. a thief will then be deemed as a good person.. right?
so in order to improve yourself.. most of the things that you do must be acceptable.. coz the word acceptable is given by the others.. not yourself.. and it goes back to what i've said before.. we are living together with the others.. so we cannot only think of ourself and not to consider what others feel.. everyone needs to be accepted.. and everyone has the right to have a chance to be accepted.. coz that's how this world works as we always depends on others to live.. imagine if you have a master in everything but no one is gonna hire you.. coz your behaviour is just unacceptable.. how are you gonna survive?
no one can live alone.. you may say that living on top of the mountain and go hunting everyday is considered as living alone.. but that's wrong.. what do you depend on to live? you need trees to build houses and to set up fire.. you need foods provided by the animals living on the mountain.. isn't that depending on others?
change is needed when there's a need to change.. change comes naturally most of the time.. but firstly.. you have to tell yourself to open up for change.. only then can change comes naturally..
with things you don't like.. you'll find things you like..
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