Tough Husk..

Parent: My child is so disobedient, he will *blah blah blah* and then *blah blah blah*
Author: So what do you want?
Parent: *Stun for a while* You don't understand, he is really rebellious *and it goes on and on*
Author: I ask you again, so what do you want?

i read this book.. happens that the author was a counselor or something.. and he was talking about how often humans complain about things around them.. and when he ask that "so what you do want" question.. they couldn't answer a thing.. coz all they want is just someone to agree that they are in the right and others are wrong.. but the fact is they just couldn't accept the fact that they were the one in the wrong.. and for the above case.. the parents just wouldn't admit that they couldn't discipline their child.. and put the blame on their child.. reason being rebellious and wouldn't listen to them..

fact.. reality.. truth.. it's all hurting when it comes or happens to yourself.. and we the fragile humans often just turn our backs and blame it on some other things or someone else.. somtimes we have to know that the choice is our hands.. realities.. truths .. they just happen.. we are the one who have a choice to fight with it or just run away..

i don't know what to say.. it seems like many things are happening now.. but i guess i should change myself first before i can change others.. and again it really proved what i've said in the past is right.. start everything from yourself..

even if there're no roads for you to choose.. you can cut your way through..