Monday, July 28

Human, nature..

"疑人不用,用人不疑"
eight words nicely arranged and with strong message conveyed.. short and sweet..i wonder when can i come up with sentences like this on my own..

ok anyway.. i realise that praising is a kind of responsibility.. you can either revive a person or if not kill him with it.. a praise is no longer merely a praise now coz it needs the right time.. right place and the right amount.. an overdose or wrong praise can be misleading..

that's something to ponder on especially praises from people with high status.. they are just like some ruler of some kind.. standing on a high mountain.. looking at how peaceful his kingdom is on the surface.. without knowing the darkside of his people or their intrigue against each other..

alright.. it's kinda obvious that i'm refering to something.. but well.. i guess i should leave it for now.. since things will somehow work out at times.. and damn that program booklet.. it gives me headache.. zZz..

human hearts are not like maths in which the answers are certain.. since they do stray from their path sometimes..

Wednesday, July 2

乘风破浪..

我不想想那么多.. 我不会想也不敢想.. 因为喜欢一个人就是要把她送到幸福的那一端去.. 即使你自己并不是那一端.. 至于其他的事.. 我相信“随缘”这两个字.. 该是你的就是你的.. 不是你的强求也没用..

我不是不追求.. 而是觉得追求太不真实.. 人性是因情形与情况而变的.. 我不想变.. 因为我不希望她到头过来说我变了.. 这样只会让她更伤心.. 所以我决不会做任何有可能让她伤心的事.. 而且这几年来.. 我觉得我还是比较适合默默的守候别人..

我现在只想对她好.. 希望她能在当中感到幸福、快乐.. 我不要求她属于我.. 只要她天天都过得开开心心的.. 我就很满足了.. 或许我非常大男人主义.. 我行我素的.. 但这就是我现在喜欢一个人的方式.. 最笨拙、愚蠢的方式.. 但只要她开心.. 什么都好..

对一个孤儿来说.. 爱就是爱.. 没什么好分的..
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